Karin wants the dream guy - exciting, strong, good breath, and most important of all - the one who she can't have. We all want what seems out of reach. It's more intense that way.

And I believe her.

Nancy, I've read some of your previous posts and my heart goes out to you. Please don't allow your mother to beat you down this way. I know it's difficult but, sometimes, in order to save your sanity, it becomes necessary to remove a toxic person from your life...even if it's your own mother. And while I'm no therapist, it would seem that her behavior has a lot to do with the problems you've written about. Hopefully, you'll be able to get some help in dealing with the pain she's been inflicting on you. Good luck.

We get what we think we deserve. So, if you think you don't deserve anything, that'll be a self-fullfilling prophesy.

all women have to do is go to any bar and pick a guy. of course dumb women go for a dude who has the best game. hint! don't go for a dude with best game , as he probably been with 1000s of women. go for a shy guy, he's probabably a keeper.

Its simple decorum not to write about something someone considers private without their consent. And, normally, people consider their dating life personal and therefore private. Of course no self-respecting man would date you knowing you don't have the common decency to keep what happens between the two of you private (be those happenings good or bad), or to at least ask for permission before writing about it. Hint: There's a reason its called a "private life." I wouldn't date anyone who didn't respect me enough to keep what was private between the two of us - or at the very least - to ask before airing it on the internet. From the sounds of the men who were quizzed on you I'm in good company.