Why assume that coupled people are all running from something? Any couplehood requires work every day - without it, it dissolves. Some couples run from the hard work and the moments that you describe when you don't "hear bells" but it's worth it. Those who "invest" in a relationship are actually running TOWARD something that it seems you will soon discover. A tendency to fear commitment and risk has misled you, but it looks like you are following your courageous instinct and taking the risk - good for you! I'll bet that you'll see that it is the effort you spend in this for each is what's real, not the imaginary world of hookups. It will bring a more authentic, rich and varied love to your life than you have experienced to now, one that not all people appreciate but I think you will, and it will open many new opportunities and experiences. Good luck on this fantastic new stage of your life!

Im one of the eternal singles, I mean, I can´t seem to date a girl for more than 2 times. Most of the times is because I get bored, and many times they sense that im getting bored. But I do want to be coupled for a while, but It´s not easy. I do try, almost every week I go out with someone new, but either its them or its me, im beginning to think its me. Tonight I have a new date, well see...

This what seems to make you go crazy- take the pressure off- do something else- only think of him when he is right in front of you- think it might take pressure off you and with time you will be able to seperate where all this is coming from.

I know it's cliche, but the first and hardest step towards getting better is the realization that something is wrong.

spiritual wounds will be healed by time ...befor i felt like you ...i wrot my feelings to feel better it was like this stop the travelling baot or crush it and throw it in the water and let me remember the shadow of past evenings i do not want to escape with my wounds nor to look for healings becouse the healings will be worse how i can live like a bird all of the people see it is free but sure i left the earth and the sky expell me karin now i live on the earth the real one ..but my spirit is in the sky it is the solution to live the reality with high spirit over not the wounds but over the love on the earth the absolut love of god

I will like a 24 years old, young israeli woman to marriage. I an a Diamond Evaluator.

I was seeing a psychiatrist as well. I always thanked Israelis for their compassion and sympathy. Thank you.l.

Thanks for being so transparent! - I hope you kept you appt for Sunday and you went to the right place! Love comes from God - He is love - if our love does not come from Him - it's not true love - We have to allow Him to change us - We need to choose to put ourselves on the Potter's wheel and allow Him to make us what or who He has created us to be - let's be that clay in His hands! - It's amazing how he can take a nothing and make the most beautiful peace of art!

you're right,, it is you. reading you're articles, it becomes very clear that you are a women of the 21st century. here is a paraphrase of your articles: I, ME ME, MINE, ME, I, I, I, MINE, MINE, ME, ME, ME. ever heard of humility? it is a takers world and you fit right in. i cannot find ONE of your articles where you gave ANYTHING.