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It just doesn't cut it
Tali Farkash
Published: 19.12.08, 08:53
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61. Here's why..
Shoshana ,   NJ   (12.19.08)
I have a friend who is madly in love with a Cohen. She thinks her maternal line is Jewish but is having great trouble proving it. Her great grandparents were communist and each generation grew up secular with secular marriages. The poor girl's life is a mess because the object of her affection quite properly wants to retain his traditions. All because the great grandparents wanted to make a statement, they've ruined her life. The sins of the fathers is no joke. You may not be religious, but your child may have a calling. You have no right to deny him his heritage because you crave bacon. NOT doing it is the true child abuse.
62. Israeli 39
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (12.19.08)
The story of the bible is not true , you wrote . Do you know that when looking for water , scientist had this "untrue" [ for you ] Torah in one hand and instruments in the other [ it's an image of course , they studied indoors ] The story of the Torah is TRUE , we have not to accept that it were a god's deeds , but the History that is told can't be denied . Why do we are different ? because this country belongs Historically to the Jewish people . Denying that we are Jews , denies us the right to live here . Being Jewish includes also to have a Jewish wedding and perform , a not so painfull , Brith Mila on our sons . As you certainly have read more of my TB's you must know that i'm Secular , but Jewish .
63. Israeli 39
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (12.19.08)
The State of Israel was NOT established "thanks" to our six million murdered Brethren . The establishment long began before the Shoah . The Shoah only accelerated the creation a little .
64. You can be assured of one thing if there is no Brit Milah
Tamir   (12.19.08)
You can be assured that, without a brit Milah, the boy cannot live a Jewish life. With one, he can chose to be religious or not. Without one, he can't chose to be religious. By refusing to have a Brit Milah, a parent is making the conscious decision to disallow Judaism in that boy's life. They are also abdicating an important parental decision to a child. How do I know? I became religious with children who had never had a brit Milah. They had it done later. This is when they don't forgive you--for not getting it done. WAKE UP!
65. Edithann #46, RE "Circumcision contempt for God"
Jake   (12.20.08)
Luke 2:21 "After eight days had passed, the infant was circumcised and named Jesus, the name given him by the angel before he was conceived in the womb." TATA
66. #7 Thanks emporer Hadrian
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67. #38 Lol I was about to blast you until I read the last line
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nicely put!
68. #39
Ali Baba ,   Desert   (12.20.08)
Are you Christian or Muslim? Why the bash on Judaism likening it to Pagan traditions of ancient Greece and Rome, and yet no mention of the fact there are Christians living in Italy and Greece. I mean if Judaism is outdated because of its practises these religions based on the tenets of our religion should also be in the waste bin, as should all religion! I fail to see the parallel of monotheistic faith (Judaism) to a Pagan one. If you bash Judaism why not bash the Greeks and Italians for being Christian? I'm really having a hard time comprehending your position as it implies a dualism you'd normally ascribe to the religious! So why behave in the exact same dualistic manner as your hated brethren?
69. #44
Ali Baba ,   Desert   (12.20.08)
Just by the fact that you toot your own horn by saying your arguement settles the issue, without allowing back-and-forth debate, is telling enough! Talk about a facist approach... Accusing others of being 7 year olds while not even giving them the oppertunity to defend their position is rather??? How do we say, elementary!
70. agree with tali
E ,   NY   (12.20.08)
It is amusing to see some of the comments dictating how other Jews ought to practice their faith. I see no problem with letting a boy decide for himself whether he wants part if his genitalia snipped off for religious reasons.
71. #61
E ,   NY   (12.20.08)
Your friend's life has not been ruined because her great grandparents were secular. She has fallen in love with a man who is either too cowardly to stand up for the women he loves, or his love of tradition is greater than his love for her. Either way you slice it, she'd be better off without him if he is willing to lose her because of a religious technicality.
72. sensitivity
max ,   jersey   (12.20.08)
is the worst argument to not do it. i have freinds who arent circumsied and one of them said "well mine is more sensitive " and everyone laughed is it really good to be more sensitive there and last one minutte? i think not.
73. #7
ILYSE ,   USA   (12.20.08)
WHAT A LOAD OF CRAP. I HAVE A 13 MONTH OLD SON. HE WAS CIRCUMCISION IN MY HOME, HE WAS NOT IN EXCRUCIATING PAIN, HE WILL HAVE NO LIFELONG PHYICAL SCAR NOR WILL HE HAVE A MENTAL SCARE FROM THE TRAUMA. AS FAR AS HAVING SEXUAL SENSITIVITY IN ADULTHOOD - MEN WHO HAVE A FORESHIN HAVE SENSITIVITY BECAUSE THEIR PENIS IS COVERED. NOT TO MENTION A CIRCUMCISE PENIS IS A LOT MORE BEAUTIFUL. FROM THE PICTURES I HAVE SEEN OF MEN WITH FORESHINS THEY LOOK A LOT LIKE HORSES. MY NON JEWISH GIRLFRIENDS WOULD RATHER BE WITH A MAN THAT IS CIRCUMCISE THEN A MAN WITH A FORESKIN. IF YOU HAVE A FORESHIN YOU REALLY NEED TO GET RID OF IT THEN MAYBE YOU WILL BE ABLE TO LAID.
74. #12 YOU ARE SO SELF HATING(END0
JEW ,   USA   (12.20.08)
75. my parents were secular but made sure i was circumcised
glad i am/was done ,   OUCH ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !   (12.20.08)
so regardless of all our conflicts i thank them for this kindness. i am 61 and wouldn't want to go thru this now that as an 8 day old i have no recollection of-----poor Abraham at 99 years old going through that required sign of the covenant-genesis 17:24
76. Circumcision is genital mutilation!
Jason ,   Canada   (12.20.08)
All you people advocating circumcision are the stupidest people on this planet. How dare you justify the mutilation of little boys? You people disgust me! And all these "medical benifits" are a load of crap! Have any of you morons heard of a shower?
77. YOU BLAME G-D FOR EVERYTHING
JEW ,   USA   (12.20.08)
WRONG. DO YOU EVER GIVE G-D A THANK YOU FOR THE DAILY MIRACLES HE GIVES YOU?. G-D KEPT HIS PROMISES TO MANKIND. BUT MANKIND DID NOT KEPT HIS PROMISE TO G-D. WE JEWS ARE IN A SORRY STATE AND YOU CAN LOOK AT YOURSELF AND WHEN YOU BLAME G-D, MAKE SURE YOU BLAME YOURSELF AS WELL.
78. #46 Poor Stupid IDIOTANN,G-d told Avraham to circumcise his
ENTIRE household.It ,   is a covenant token.   (12.20.08)
79. BRIT means COVENANT in Hebrew. Without the BRIT, is there
Rivkah   (12.20.08)
a covenant? The Apostle Paul thought there could be a covenant for Gentiles without the BRIT, but was he right? I don't think so. It is quite clear in the Scriptures that the covenant is everlasting and the BRIT is a sign of the covenant. Gentiles must become Jews in their hearts to be a part of the covenant which includes circumcism. Paul caused so much division by saying circumcism was not necessary when the Scriptures clearly say it is necessary. I think the reason Paul misjudged on that was because he thought the heart was the blood pump or seat of the emotions, not the head of the penis. There are two hearts on a man: the blood pump and the head of the penis which is heart shaped and has a hood that is circumcised or cut off as an outward sign of the covenant with Abraham. The Bible says the heart is desperately wicked and should not be trusted. That cannot be the blood pump seat of the emotions. It has to be the head of the penis which is vile and cannot be trusted. Paul did not understand God's word and he was not God, so he made a mistake on telling Gentiles they did not need the BRIT to be a part of the Promises of God to Abraham.
80. 76 Jason: It is better to enter into heaven with a flap
Rivkah   (12.20.08)
of skin cut off the penis than to enter into hell with the birth penis in tact.
81. HIS decision
Ron Low ,   Chicago, USA   (12.20.08)
Taking without asking is stealing. A thoughtful person can conclude that the more recent Thou Shall Not Steal has abrogated the ancient covenant of the 8th day, in which a healthy normal body part is taken without consent.
82. Ah Rivka,Paul was talking about circumcision of the heart,or
the spirit man. ,   JP,Texas   (12.20.08)
83. 82 JP: GOD (not Paul), but GOD was VERY SPECIFIC about
Rivkah   (12.20.08)
WHERE the circumcism was to occur: the flap of skin on the head of the penis which Abraham had removed from his own play-pretty when he was in his nineties. I have to believe what Paul said on circumcism was either mistranslation from the original Hebrew or Paul was confused about GOD's instructions to Abraham. The instructions to Abraham were not spiritual, but of the physical body. Yeshua the Messiah obeyed this written commandments and was himself circumcised in the flesh, not the imaginary spiritual flesh around the blood pump heart. A lot of writings were considered for inclusion in the Christian bible, and perhaps some of Paul's writings should have been excluded since his position on circumcism is not in obedience to the commandments of God. Paul's version is clearly a commandment of men or of Paul.
84. Rebeccaca , shut up . Enough christian propaganda
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (12.20.08)
sit in your chair , with your pets , the only whom love you because you feed them .
85. It just doesn't cut it
David Wilson ,   Cocoa Beach Florida   (12.21.08)
Thank you for letting others know that circumcision is not the only answer. http://www.ynetnews.com/articles/0,7340,L-3640854,00.html Stop Infant Circumcision Society www.StopInfantCircumcision.org 16th Annual Demonstration/March Against Infant Circumcision March 24th - 30th 2009 U.S. Capitol * Washington D.C. Learn the truth....save your son from this insanity http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OQkqrAwASLc Doctors Opposing Circumcision Statement on HIV/Circumcision http://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.org/info/HIVStatement.html www.MGMbill.org Bill to end male genital mutilation Interview with Dr. John R. Taylor - Anatomic Pathologist http://www.intact.ca/taylor.html The Ridged Band of Sexual Nerves http://research.cirp.org/ ASHLEY MONTAGU RESOLUTION TO END GENITAL MUTILATION OF CHILDREN WORLDWIDE http://montagunocircpetition.org Sign the Montagu petition to join thousands of supporters including Dr. Jonas Salk and Nobel Laureates Dr. Francis Crick (Medicine 1962), Dr. George Wald (Medicine 1967), and Betty Williams (Peace 1977). Historical Video of our March Against Male Circumcision 2001 www.intactivist.org/march.rm A Short History of Circumcision in the U.S. in Physicians' Own Words http://www.sexuallymutilatedchild.org/shorthis.htm Fathers Day 93' my two headed volkswagon van in front of white house http://www.stopinfantcircumcision.org/david/2freaky.jpg
86. Tali I think you're cute
Geoffory Brach ,   Knoxville Tn   (12.21.08)
If someone does not want to cut their child then I think the child will be cut later as the child will surely have more sense than the parents, and honor the Brit, the Mitzvot that were given to us a few years ago. If I were married to Tali, and perhaps she would take me, hint hint, we would be ALL THINGS JEWISH, including our sons little talley wacker. If as a nation jews want to be different, then keep the mitzvah. If you want to be like every other heathen in the world, forget the Mitzvot and become as everyone else. But as for me and my house, including Tali if she and I are every put together, we WILL server G-D....
87. 84 Sir Charles the Stupid does not know the difference
Rivkah   (12.21.08)
between Christian and Messianic Judaism. Most Christians are poly theistic trinity worshippers who believe in a Sunday sabbath of man instead of a Saturday Shabbat of the Lord who is one God, not three. Since I believe in a Saturday Shabbat and one God, I am not what is commonly called Christian. I am Messianic. My cats are godly because when I a feed them, they do not bite the hand that feeds them like a lot of people do. II Chronicles 19:2 says if you help the ungodly, it will be a curse to you. If you help the godly, it will be a blessing to you. My pets are a blessing to me and some people have been, too. But a lot of people are ungodly and helping them brings a curse. Abel Shoni was a blessing to people when he wrote to YNET, but you are a curse. Why is it that such opposites attrack? I hope he does not get infected with the demon that controls you.
88. body piercing and tattoos aren't barbaric?
mike   (12.21.08)
yet they do not offend.
89. 86 Why don't you tell Tali you will move to Israel after
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visiting Israel to see her if she wants to see you in the company of others to consider being in your life? A lot of American East Indians and Pakistanis go back to the homeland for parties to select a spouse (male or female). Maybe some Jews go to Israel to find a spouse.
90. Israeli, Israel; Belief in God
Louis ,   Chasmonai, Israel   (12.21.08)
The suffering of the innocent is an issue that mankind has always struggled with and is beyond this forum. However, it is a recognized question that is discussed in great detail; but by its nature is always painful even if an approach to understanding is proposed. As to your post #39, you yourself refer to Greeks in Greece, Egyptians in Egypt but yet refer to Jews in Israel. It is hard to argue with the fact that the reason Jews are in Israel has to relate to the Biblical connection of Jews to Israel established by God's promise/covenant in the Torah. David Ben Gurion acknowledged this as being the case. Without lessening the question of suffering, the fact of the Biblical promise of God that the Jewish people may be exiled from Israel but will return from all corners of the globe literally being fulfilled is unique and compelling. There is pain but also meaning to the ongoing saga of our People.
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