Shalom: I am and always have been a fat person. I am also very proud of myself for many reasons some pretaining to work life and most of all sex. I am 30 years of age and have had over a hundred lovers no exaggeration there. I find that not only it is very easy to please a woman but also have her return for a secound encounter. The two most important things that have lead me to have such experiences are make yourself available to understanding the moment,be it conversation or a sexual encounter. The secound most important comfort ability if you do not feel reasured that you are the package you are delivering chances are you wont be accepted. There are other factors namely penis size. I have been told that mine was alot bigger than she would have believed. In fact larger than most fit men my age but this is my own first hand experience. There is a well known additive "Its not how big it is but ho it's used". I also do not have a problem with my stamina and can go the distance and beyond especially if the woman is desirable. But if all else fails I learned to use other tactics such as comedy women love to laugh and relax again just be comfortable in the situation and who you are not how you are perceived. Every one is different and there will be hit and miss just keep in good spirits and any man can make it work for them. Keep clean well groomed and confident and women will notice and be attracted to you.

Try mounting him facing backwards or theres allways the couch try putting a pillow under his ack. best of luck

i saw fat men around me has so many children and they are rich of sperm. so, i assumed that they were enjoy their sex life..

I don't like skinny men. 200 lbs + is a start.

Yes , I do enjoy my sex life to the limits. What about a 125 kg (about 250 lbs) Olga. I would like to know moreabout you Olga. This is my email address: shadilb80@yahoo.com

This article is so biased it's ridiculous. Just because the author prefers men who have the type of body society considers "sexy" does not mean there are not men/women who are attracted to fat men. Just because they're overweight does not mean they have "issues" finding a good relationship or in their sex lives. I know from experience. I'm 18 years old and a slender (and I'm told very attractive) female and I've always been very attracted to fat men. I date fat men NOT out of desperation or because I can't find a so- called "hot" one with a six pack, but because it is my preference as it is for many others.My boyfriend is 5'7 and 250 lbs ( and very sexy) and he has NO problems sexually. He's just as horny as any other guy if not more and speaking from experience.. fat men make excellent lovers. Not always because they're insecure and they have to try harder as the author suggests. My sexy fat man knows I think hes sexy and has plenty of confidence. Just my opinion on the subject. And for the record, not all overweight men or women have health problems, many of the are very physically active and not too "embarrased" to go to the gym. This is a very generalized statement and a pretty rude assumption if you ask me.

but in my own experience I have had absolutely no interest in me from ladies since I left my last girlfriend. I have many friends and my past girlfriends and all friends consider me handsome, groomed and clean. Maybe its my personality but I always make the ladies laugh!? Maybe its just a UK thing? But whatever it is... I get no love :( lol

It is obvious that the Author has little love for Fat Men. Her article is so biased that is it worthless.