I too am a bereaved daughter of a bereaved nation. Truely I feel and understand your pain. Please try to understand that your behaviour places a blemish on the memory of your loved ones. As difficult as it may be please do try to understand that an "Andarta" (memorial stone) will not bring back your loved ones. Instead please do consider using your energies for healing yourselves and assisting others in healing themselves. that way the memory of your loved ones will be for a blessing. respectfully, an Israeli.