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Rabbis against teen marriage
Kobi Nahshoni
Published: 16.04.07, 19:09
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31. ....how to cook kosher....
(04.18.07)
It is important our girls know how to cook kosher.NO matter how high the education achievements are the character of a girl must be of high character of finess and class. Bentham , Singapore *** TEACH THEM TO RULE THEIR HUSBUNDS INTO PEACE. THIS IS THE ONLY WAY INTO HAPPY WORLD JEW LIFE. JEW MAN NEED TO BE RULED BY THEIR OWN WOMEN. love Atilla Karagözoğlu King of Israel Note: I hate that kosher subject. I had a AUNT. My Mothers older sister. She died years ago. She was very hard religios Lady. One day, we were having meat at the garden. you know chicken, meat. BUT SHE DIDNT EVEN TOUCH IT. BECAUSE SHE DIDNT KNOW IF THEY WERE KOSHER (we also have this unnecessary subject) . maybe its beautifull to cut animals with The Name of The God, but KOSHER THINGS KEEPS US FAR FROM REAL WORLD. Lets dont be that poor to live as prophets. MAYBE I AM NOT KOSHER FOR YOU. BUT, I LOVE YOU. MAYBE YOU ARE NOT KOSHER FOR ME. BUT I LOVE YOU we can live without THE KOSHER LIFE. LOVE IS THE ONLY KOSHER. Kosher things wont bring what we realy need. love Atilla Karagözoğlu King of Israel Let me make you smile (its real story) one day I went to visit My ount. (whenever she used to see me she used to forget herself. anyway, she started kiss my face all over. BY MISTAKE she did kiss my lips very little in a second :))) DAMN IT WAS THE BAD BAD THING I HAVE EVER LIVED. but she didnt realize she did that. SHE WAS VERY RELIGIUS LADY. MY ANOTHER MOTHER. the point: look at that love. BUT ALL HER LIFE SHE HAS LIVED KOSHER ???? I wish she did live normal. I miss and love her. Her childreen told me how great she used to love me, yesterday. MYYnet, this post ???? I dont know. if you want dont publish. I dont know. I love youuuuuu MYYNet :)))))
32. TV SOLUTION
Rabi Arutz ,   Israel   (04.18.07)
PLEASE, JUST LET THEM WATCH TV, SPORT, WHATEVER, AND THEY WON'T BE THAT DESPERATE TO DO SOMETHING AT NIGHT.
33. @ 31 Atilla Hun the King...
ben ,   singapore   (04.18.07)
:) you are sad that your old aunt was not a TEEN :))))) See yeah around lad :)))
34. cant generalize
chana ,   Los angeles, USA   (04.19.07)
I agree with you. we dont know how much we will be making at these particular ages, and I dont think you can put a generalization on this and say that between these ages are the perfect time to get married. Everyone is different. Maybe 25 is not good for one individual. Maybe 29 or 30 would be better. It all depends on the individual.
35. too early is not healthy
chana ,   Los Angeles USA   (04.19.07)
I dont necessarely think that its better to get married earlier. I think that it is better to have a strong sense of who you are first, otherwise, without knowing yourself properly, how are you going to know what it is that you want from a marriage and what your looking for in a relationship with your spouse. The marriage has to be a joint effort. The young people need a chance to grow and get to know themselves so they can find out what it is that they want most out of life, so that they aren't stuck making big mistakes and ending up unhappy. I think its very unhealthy to get married too early.
36. To Yoni, in jerusalem
chana ,   Los Angeles USA   (04.19.07)
I like what you said yoni and fully agree with you. An important thing that you pointed out was that you would suggest getting married young to those who "already know who they are and what they want". I think that this must stand true for young individuals before doing anything.
37. If they want to marry , let them get married...
ben ,   singapore   (04.19.07)
properly, otherwise cohabitation will they resort to- surely that is not the way. What about abortion rate ? Isnt it connected with the teen problem. One should rather adopt the child and the teen mother together, if the young teen are finacially unsound to have a child.This is very rampant among teen who run away from home. In such cases we should adopt the homelss child ( mother) and the child in her womb altogether.You see babies are precious gift. No to abortion please ! About Single Mothers, teen or not, the state should take the responsbility partly , just to get them go independant on thier feet.It wll be a happy end. No to teen marriage-I really dont agree. Let them get married, after all there are many hurdels in a marriage. They will learn to swim we must create the facility to the poor girls and boys- young and old. The problem is they dont want to talk to their Rabbis or counsel- if only they do, they would be properly guided. the options will be clearly communicated. Jewish boy and girls should do business to gain the financial freedom at any point of their life be it at teen or later.Parents must train their children to do the necessary things in time !
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