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And what if she’s Sephardi?
Neta Sela
Published: 06.08.07, 12:36
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31. what if shes a sephardi
alan ash ,   nyc ny   (08.07.07)
any male will be lucky to have a girl from sephardi family. as is well known they are more family oriented.more tolerant,better cooks . and they are much closer in all aspects to the real way of life. their holiday and shabbat get togethers are an example all should be lucky enough to have, this old stereotype just shows what a flat earth society some people still choose to live in . intolerance breeds a horrible future.the world has changed anybody that has a problem with a sephardi really has a problem with himself. am yisrael chai.
32. #27 Mark: If you had a child by a Sephardic, that child...
Rivkah   (08.07.07)
have a Jewish bloodline. You and Raymond would have to be DNA tested to see if you are similar to Sephardic Jews or Cohens. Raymond says the Ashkennazie Jews are more similar to Palestinians than to Poles. Poles as a class hate Jews, being mostly Roman Catholic, so it is unlikely too many marriages changed the Khazar blood line to Jewish in Poland.
33. Truth in this article
Avi   (08.07.07)
I am chareidi of mixed background. There is ABSOLUTELY a division between Ashk and Sef in Israel and in the Galut. Whenever a marital problem crops up in a mixed couple, the following statement always is stated "That's why Ashkenazim should marry Ashkenazim and Sefardim, Sefardim." This is total nonsense. Look at the divisions in religion amongst the Sefardim. They are few and far between when viewed at a similar observance level. Ashkenazim have a billion minhagim depending on their shtetl or chassidishe rebbi. They view themselves as elitists and that's even gone beyond societal implications to actual government policy. Look at the past PM'S as well as governmental leaders in Israel. Look up the "Ringworm Children" on google video or youtube. I, for one, am disgusted by Ashken-nazi superiority complexes - whether it's eugenically inspired, socially, religious or otherwise inspired. Amongst Hareidim, the Ashkenaz are NEVER fully accepting of Sefardim unless the more or less assimilate into the Ashkenazi world. THAT is something in need of a TIKKUN!
34. Racism and Haredi
Rami ,   Belgium   (08.07.07)
I find it very rare that orthodox jews are more raciste (between jews themselves) than secular jews, I can notice it very clearly among all the jews I Know, the mitnagdim prefer not to mary the chassidim, Shas was created because the chassidim didn't accept them and so on, I fear the futur if Israel gets more orthodox it might be the end of our country, can someone please explain me why this racism exist is it part of the religion? Thank you
35. Great
Oren ,   NY,USA   (08.08.07)
I kinda like these ashkenazi views and them not wanting to marry sefardic. This way we can keep the best, warmest, and most caring girls within ourselves. We dont need to mix with the coldness on the other side.
36. #7 is the reason women shouldnt be allowed in govt
The Great Khan ,   Kabul,Afghanistan   (08.10.07)
there very silly in the 1st place Ashkenazim are not Khazar Tribe.Khazar are a Moghol Tribe and ive never seen a Moghol Ashkenaz.And as far as the soc alled ashkenazim are elite and sephardim are inferior i think is absurd and i belive Sephardi and Mizrachi are superior and Ashkenazim well they just cry loud like blk americans.
37. Another Propaganda piece by Ynet.
Tzvi ,   NYC. USA   (08.10.07)
This is another propaganda pice by ynet and the Israeli media, trying to devide religious Jews. They sprew soo much hatred towards religious Jews its not even funny. Im Bukharian and I wouldnt want to marry someone outside my community because their are cultural differences and ways of living and doing things. (ooh yea, go ahead and not publish this and thus furthur prove what bolsheviks you are).
38. Oren , don't be so exited !
charles ,   petach tikva   (08.10.07)
Those are only charidim who don't want sephardi women . Seculars and "normal" religious accept them certainly . So don't think you alone will have the joy to have such a fine Sephardi woman , there is competition !
39. The fact is....
Danielle ,   centre   (08.12.07)
the two cultures are very different...this has nothing to do with religion, it's just that the sefardim have a more Arab mentality; the ashkenasim, a more Europian one. These two cultures are so far removed that it is simply hard to mix them. I was married to a safardi, so I saw this phenomina first hand. It was like a two different world colliding. So i would say, all predjucies aside....a marriage has enough challenges without this added complication.
40. Danielle , centre
charles ,   petach tikva   (08.13.07)
I fully agree with your last sentence . I would add , that when marrying , you have also the spouses family , and they can also create problems . Certainly when from a different Jewish origin .
41. How much rubbish do u talk
dudu azaraf ,   South Africa   (09.21.07)
First of all,sfradim are stricter in halacha than askhenazim wid alot of things,like our schicta and method of bishul israel and sfradi girls are gorgeous man and the funny and cook unbelievable well,inferior!! gimme a break
42. Sephardim vs Ashkenazim
Marie Romero ,   Prescott Valley AZ   (03.14.10)
I have read several articles about how the Ashkenazim are superior to the Sephardim. I am deeply saddened to think that after everything that the Jewish people have been through, whether in Germany or Spain, that they would turn on eachother in this way. I am a Sephardi woman and I love my people - Israel.
43. Sefardic chicks over Ashkenazi anyday
Camilo ,   Los Angeles, USA   (07.29.11)
I'm not even Jewish but Ashkenazi jews are hideously ugly, Sephardi chicks are hot! Inferior my ass.
44. #7 - Yeah, Ahmed, and you're really named Rivkah
Scott ,   USA   (08.29.12)
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