I am under the impression that the Torah forbids and condemns homosexuals in no uncertain terms. Even calls it an abomination and should be off off. Am I wrong?

Seems to me a very complicated issue.As i believe in the Tora laws,it makes it very simple to me;The Tora says:gay lifestyle is wrong,so for me without any hesitation,it is wrong.I agree with you, about not rejecting a child.But we can gently discuss with him.We don t have to give up to quickly.

And how do you explain that Jews abroad , a tiny minority i those democratic countries , may build Synagogues ? with sometimes even Rabbanim paid by the State . Build schools , and have them even subsidised ? Are this not rights for minorities . And i'm not talking about Gays here , who in some countries can even got married .