Ladies : Be proud you are different The creator made species in male and female mostly. Some gene confusion cause a small number of anomalies. Historically Judaism was delivered to men, not least because women had their hands full, rearing and making home. That became the tradition. changes to the tradition means you are seek modernising Judaism as given according to emotions only that might disrupt the whole dynamic Do you have the right to impose such demands? I think many would doubt it , and rightly so. There are more urgent aspects to modernise than females wanting to lay Tefillin, read from the Torah, and don Tallit.

Payer, a silent appeal from Soul or Heart to the creator needs no paraphernalia , so what exactly are you trying to achieve ? Rabbis have interposed themselves to secure a role , and a living They often complicate and confuse what is meant to be simple moral and ethical rules for life, to justify a hold on their congregation There were no rabbis when Moses brought down Torah. Their role today should be reduced to teachers if they are good enough and practice what they claim they teach

Almost every specific point made is inaccurate and based on misunderstanding. I hope she finds her way back to Torah and yiras Shomeiyim, bu findi9ng a Rabbi who can explaion the relevant Halachahs.