You do not need the advice of a stranger . However on reflection, she is right. No man should ever ask this.

In one hand, is more secure to hire men than women, there were many cases were employers had problems with female workers, and got false complaints of sexual harassment, having women is danger for male employers, since according Israel's law, the complaint (without evidence,or even with evidence against it!) is enough to jail the man. In second hand, you can't say "women shouldn't be the only one giving up their career for children". But in real life, for example when a couple with children want to separate, if the separation is not friendly, the woman automatically can get the husband far from the children. Many men commited suicide in Israel because were forbidden to see their children. Children became a weapon for women, and in equality can't be brought only in a field (labor field) while keeping unequality in other fields.

sometimes any old covering will do. or have to do. but when, to degree you do have a choice, use at least as much cunning skill intelligence and self awareness in choosing a mate as you do in choosing a suit or dress. is it good material, worth what it costs, how long will it last, does it suit YOU regardless of what's in fashion, and can you afford it. of course if your rich and a collector, you change your mates serially if honest, adulterously if not. even then, tho, not all stolen clothes wear any better than the bought off the shelf, let alone the ones you hopefully bespoke more carefully.

A unsatisfied woman selling out all Israel to our enemies; and advicing girls to forget life...! kulam, kulam: dont listen to her: Marry your Love and have children and remember: in much more harder times the families had up to ten or more babies and they stayed together with Love.. - or look to the beginning of our State, before the Americans suck us out... And than decide!