If parents consent to their only child serving in a combat unit they should not have the right to pull them out the first time they have to fire a gun. They should have the right to refuse consent to send their child to a combat unit but once that soldier is in the unit and is sent to battle tough because was strategy doesn't revolve around a single individual. As for Goldin we should be punishing the Pals, cut off the electricity to Gaza until the body is returned, refuse to hand over any of their dead unless they return ours not play by Hamas rules and negotiate the release of killers for corpses or we will loose every single war we ever fight because even if the terrorists can't capture soldiers alive their dead bodies are just as useful.