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Rabbinate to discuss civil marriage for first time
Kobi Nahshoni
Published: 04.03.09, 12:35
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31. Please advise.
David ,   USA, exile   (03.05.09)
Are there two kinds of Jews, one genetic and one Religious? If so, who determines who is a proper Religious Jew? You say the Rabbis, then where does he get his authority. Did he become a Rabbi because he was a genetic Jew who practice proper Torah guidelines to become a Religious Jew also and then a Rabbi? How after all these hundreds of years does any Jew know he is a true genetic Jew and not have mixed blood? How does any one claiming to be a genetic Jew know whether or not, one person, during these two thousand years did not sleep with what you call a goy and corrupt the gene pool? Why does Charles say that one who believes in Yeshua is not a Jew. If he is a genetic Jew is he not a Jew? Can any one person in these talkbacks prove to himself (not me) that his Jewish genealogy is pure? I know that the Priestly gene has been isolated, or so they say, but this is only one genetic marker, it does not prove that the genetics of the person is not mixed. I am not trying to create a controversy. I really want to know how you people know these things. Can anyone answer? Charles can you offer anything of substance to these questions?
32. David , USA , stay there
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.05.09)
This guy believing in yeshua claims to be a convert , but can't give the name of any TRUE Rabbi , a TRUE Orthodox one who confirms his "conversion" . He can''t give the name of the "beth Din" who acknowledged his "conversion" . He is deceiving people on his web site with UNTRUE things . He had "ministry of absorption" on his web site as HEADING , if this is not to deceive people ? I have met , and still do it ,RELIGIOUS Jews , TRUE ones . NO one believe in this yeshua as the messias . This guy has told Susan of Kfar Saba , that he still believes in his jesus . Not Jewish at all . Nobody can prove that his/her genealogy is 100 % "pure" , but that's not the question , it's irrelevant . I know that you are a p*qid supporter , hold your yeshua for you , and don't try to interfere in Jewish matters , not your business
33. The Rabbi and civil marriage
Michelle Wayne ,   Sydney Australia   (03.06.09)
Why is the Rabbis have to do with civil marriage? I's non of they bisness, and marring over in other contrys is styl legal in Israel, so all this talk is weist of time, this is 21 century get on with it.
34. #32 Charles
David ,   USA, exile   (03.06.09)
You are wrong Charles. I am NOT a Paquid supporter. I ask questions because I wanted reasonable answers so I can learn. You don't know who I am so how can you say it is not my business. I mentioned you in the question because I consider you to be the farthest thing from a Jew of all the people on these talkbacks. One cannot be a true Jew without nefesh. Athiest have no nefesh. You don't know if your genealogy is pure from your own words so you can't claim to be a Jew if you say I can't. My claim to being Jew is better than yours. I at least keep Torah and serve Hashem to the best of my ability. No nefesh, no pure genealogy, no Jew. So charlie it is not your business. It is mine.
35. David
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.06.09)
Nobady can tell he's 100 % genetically "pure" Jewish . I can tell you that if one of us can call himself a Jew , it's me . Not only genetically [ at least 20 generations on my Father's , and 6 at my mother's side . Not speculations , but 100 % sure ] but from head to toe . Nefesh ? what do you know about it ? A Jewish Nefesh has'nt to be a religious one . You were defending this goy p*qid some time ago , so you are his supporter , and from the same origin , not Jewish at all .
36. David , you are NOT a JEW
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.06.09)
A TRUE Jew , as I AM , will not ask why a yeshua believer is called NON Jewish by me . A TRUE Jew , as i AM , KNOWS IT .
37. #36 Charles
David ,   USA, exile   (03.06.09)
Well Charles, it may surprise you to know that Yeshua was a true Jew. He was much more a true Jew than you will ever hope to be. If I must choose to believe between Yeshua my Mashiach and an athiest charlie, I will choose Yeshua. He is my Judge, and He will be yours sir. However, I am casting pearls before a swine so I will stop this conversation here.
38. David the GOY, hold your "schweinerei" for you
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.06.09)
and your NON Jews . Choose wathever you want to believe in , even in this Jew called yeshua , but don't pretend to be a JEW as i am , not a pseudo "convert" , but a TRUE one . Believers in your yeshua are GOYIM , NON Jews .
39. Charles
David ,   USA, exile   (03.06.09)
Charles your ignorance is beyond all belief. You call me goy. So what? Do you know the meaning of the word. It means "nations." I can show you many places in Tanach where Jews are called goy. Would you like the references? Can you read Biblical Hebrew Charles? Oh, excuse me, I forgot, you are an athiest. You probably don't even have a Tanach. You probably doesn't know what it is. I would much rather be a G-d fearing goy than an athiest nefeshless person.
40. LOL LOL LOL Yeshua Not a "true jew"?
dennis ,   us   (03.07.09)
LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL I've seen insanity and a perverted attempt to lie about him in various ways. As writen by the 12 Apostles he was who he was and history has so proven he really was who he is. but this latest fool assertion is just gotta be the top ignoramous lie of all time! LOL LOL LOL
41. David , Whe a TRUE Jew says GOY
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.07.09)
to you , it's not the Tanachic Goy meaning people [ a goy has'nt to teach me , i know it better ] it's the PEJORATIVE meaning of NON Jew . But as a goy , in the pejorative meaning , you don't know it . Ex Jews believing in your yeshua are the same as Jews who convert to christianity , they don't belong to the Jewish people anymore . But those who convert to christianity are at least honest , they don't call themselve Jewish anymore .
42. Dennis # 40 , LEARN TO READ
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.07.09)
It was NEVER said that yeshua was'nt Jewish , only that TRUE Jews don't see him as a Maschiach . Those believing him to be the 'messias" are NOT JEWISH . First of all , LEARN to READ
43. Charles
David ,   USA, exile   (03.07.09)
Charles, I know very well the pejorative use of the word "goy." That is not to say that I am going to use the pejorative because it is incorrect. It is taking a good word given to us by HaShem and turning it into something evil. That is what has happened with the word. The same thing happened with the word "gay." It was a word that expressed joy and happiness but now the pejorative use of it makes it a word to express an unholy life style. It is wickedness at work and you are a part of it. You can be forgiven however, if you t'shuvah.
44. David , a TRUE believing Jew does'nt write Shabbat
Charles ,   Petrach Tikva   (03.07.09)
Another proof you are'nt Jewish as i said it . Go to your church with your p*qid , that's your place .
45. #44 Charles
David ,   USA, exile   (03.07.09)
Come on Charles, can't you do better than that? What do you say Charles, Shabbos? Sabbath? Tell me what the difference is other than what a man grew up hearing. You judge a man on that? I realize you are an old man with much anger in your heart because of the holocaust. That is understandable. I just hope your spiritual eyes are opened before your natural eyes are closed in death. Your anger and hatred is keeping you from a blessed life Charles. I don't mean religious life, but spiritual life. Religion is full of bigotry and hate as you can see all around you but true spiritual life is a joy. As for this self proclaimed paqid. I believe him to be a paid professional false prophet, nothing more. I fear for his nefesh as well.
46. Messianic Jews are the ones who are
Connie ,   Virginia   (03.08.09)
the true Jews. They are by ethnicity and by having Jesus as their Messiah. I am sorry fellas. I couldn't help but respond so you would stop squabbling with each other. You can turn your prejudice against Christians to me because I don't care what you think . I am secure in who I am.
47. 45 david
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.08.09)
Yes , David , someone who does NOT Observe SHABBAT can't claim to be a believing Jew . I suppose that your kitchen is not Kosher either , with TWO sets of plates and pots . Can you tell me why you write exile , but don't make Alyah ? Do you know that make Alyah is one of the greatest Mitzwoth ? our Great Sage , the Rambam said it , and i , a secular knows it . Not the reason why i made Alyah , i did it because it's my home . You are wrong , i angry against FAKE people , that's all . Honest people who believe , even as you do in your yeshua , deserve respect . But you may not call yourself Jewish , you are not . Don't worry about me , if there is a god [ i doubd strongly ] and i will appear in front of him , he will know that i always was a GOOD Jew , not a believer , but a honest one , who has done more good things than many so called "religious" . Regarding this p*qid , now you see him as a false prophet , but some time ago you defended him . Are you serious in what you write ? one day black and now white . Be at least HONEST , David , and concede you are NOT Jewish at all .
48. Connie
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.08.09)
In french i would delete the I in your name [ LOL ] Seriously , messianics true Jews ? Believing in jesus was not , is not , and will NEVER be a TRUE Jewish belief . No TRUE jew , even a secular as i am , can accept you into our people . You claim to be Jewish by ethnicity ? because of those who converted from different people in the world ? You are ONLY Christians , who observe some Jewish laws . Not more Jewish as those "jews [ ? ] for jesus" , but as they you are , NOT JEWISH at all
49. #48 Charles
Connie ,   Virginia   (03.08.09)
I never claimed to be Jewish. Ethnicity was the wrong word. I meant by being Jews by blood/birth and that they believe in Jesus as their Messiah. btw, you have a very noble name. My father's name is Charles. A very hard-working man all his life. He is a retired Baltimore City policeman. He will turn 75 this month. I wish I knew why you have the dislike you have for Christians but I guess people like Paqid doesn't help. :-)
50. Connie , i do not dislike non Jews
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.08.09)
Only FAKE people . But you can't name yourself messianic Jews , you are messianic , no problem for me , but don't add JEWS , that's FAKE , untrue . Jews DO NOT believe in yeshua as a Messias , a savior . For TRUE Jews the Maschiach has still to come . I don't like , at least , missionaries and proseliting people . I'm a little bit younger as your Father , Charles is my official name . They did'nt accept my Jewish name as a official one at the town hall . So i was , as two of my cousins , named Charles officially and in the daily life . This p*qid is not an example of a non Jew . He represent only himself , a FAKE , dishonest deceiving hatefull guy who happens to be a christian . If i had to take him as a representative of the Christians , i would have a very bad idea of them .
51. #50 Charles
Connie ,   Virginia   (03.08.09)
Please don't call p*qid a Christian.. To me he's neither. To figure out if he's jewish would be your area of specialty. I don't take him as a representative of Christians. Looks like he's an embarrassment for both of us. I went to his web site once. That was the last time too!
52. Charles
David ,   USA, exile   (03.08.09)
First Charles, I have never defended Paqid. You must have me confused with another David. There are many who say they are David, US. That is why I added "exile." some time ago. It serves two purposes. It distinguishes me from the other Davids and expresses the feeling of my heart. I do not make Aliah because I cannot prove I am Jewish. I am like you Charles. I can't say my genealogy is pure as you admitted. I know I have a Jewish nefesh. I know I love Yisra'el more than America. I would willingly and joyfully serve in the IDF. I would convert to assure my Jewishness if I were not required to deny my Mashiach. That I can never do. So, I will never be accepted by those who hate Yeshua. This conversation started over my question on how one knows he is truely Jewish. I contend that no one can prove it one way or another with absolute certainty because it is impossible because of 2000 years of diaspora. So Charles, I don't make the claim to be genetically Jewish, but, I do claim to be spiritually Jewish. As for my kosher kitchen, I do my best according to my knowledge and abilities in a non-kosher land. I do not knowingly eat anything non-kosher according to Torah.
53. Connie
David ,   USA, exile   (03.08.09)
Hello Connie, I have no prejudice against Christians. You are my sister. I love Yeshua with all my heart and I love all His people. I use His Jewish Name, Yeshua rather than His given Greek name Jesus but that doesn't make me one thing and you another. As for my discussion with Charles, it is because I dislike bigotry that I spar with him a little. I have the same love in my heart for him that I do for all people. I think, however, that I am getting nowhere with the conversation. You know what I mean when I claim to be Jewish. It is not so much genetically, which I can't prove one way or another, but it is spiritually. As Sha'ul (Paul) said, "he is a Jew who is one inwardly." That is my claim, and that is the most important one. Blessings to you sister.
54. David USA , NOTHING Jewish in you
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.08.09)
So you admit it , you are NOT Jewish at all . I told you that i have at least 20 generations Jews on my father's side , at least six or seven on my mother's . I was given the needed certificate to make Alyah by the Charidi Rabbanut in my town , they knew me and my family . The CHARIDI , not a reform or so . So i'm 100 % Jewish , by blood for a great part , and with a 100 % Jewish Neshamah . Contrary to you who pretrend to follow Jewish laws but writes on Shabbat . No Jewish religious will do it . You try to follow Kashrut , that's not following . Do you have two sets of pots ? No , so don't tell me that you try . You are a yeshua believer , the same as this p*qid , you DEFENDED , David with exile after your name when you did it . So you are a LIAR too . Spiritually Jewish and believing in yeshua ? How do you dare to say this "spiritually" . You are NOT Jewish . Not in your body , brains , your soul is'nt [ a Neshamah is for Jews ] Nothing Jewish . You belong in a church .
55. Connie , you see what i dislike ?
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.08.09)
It are yeshua believers who call themselve Jews , even if they are NOT at all . You can believe in what you want [ if it's not indecent or criminal of course ] but be HONEST , don't take a name that does not belong to you , don't try to convert others or to impose your lifestyle on them . Then i have'nt any problem with it . Those p*qid , josh , david are example of people i dislike . The first named deceiving hatefull , the second disgusting , the last one , better not to talk about . I'm pitty him .
56. Charles
David ,   USA, exile   (03.08.09)
I never claimed to be a "genetic" Jew. I claim to be a spiritual Jew. My words were, "my claim to being a Jew is better than yours" because you are an athiest. I follow a very Jewish Mashiach and according to Rabbi Sh'aul if I am a Jew inwardly, I am a true Jew. I don't need your approval or your agreement. I have never supported paqid. You are a liar Charles. I have argued with paqid but I have not agreed with him. He is an apostate who now claims equality with Ya'qov brother of Yeshua. I could never support such claims. If I did, I would be an apostate false prophet like him. Just as if I agreed with you I would be a hateful athiest like you.
57. #55
Connie ,   Virginia   (03.08.09)
So many times when people are asked why they don't go to church, the usual reply is that " they are just hypocrites". To me that is a cop out but also unfortunately true. That's appears to be the case in all religions. Oh you forget Rivkah. She quotes all this stuff from both the Old and New Testaments but denies the Holy Spirit, which is a must in Christianity.
58. Connie , maybe i forgot others too
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.09.09)
This rivkah at least make us laugh with her stories .
59. To 56 david , i have a good memory
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (03.09.09)
Don't tell me that you disagree with this p*qid , you both believe in the same yeshua . I'm not hatefull , but i dislike THIEVES who steal the name of my people , i dislike people who call themselve something they are NOT . You were not , are NOT , and NEVER will be a Jew . NO TRUE Jew will accept you as one of our people , NO ONE
60. Same question
David ,   USA, exile   (03.10.09)
The whole point of this article was intermarriage between Jews and non Jews or civil marriages. I believe the objection is raised because the Rabbis want to keep the Jewish bloodline pure which is according to Torah. My original question was to try and find out how the Jewish Rabbis or the Jewish people determine who is a 100% pure Jew so that they will stay that way by proper marriage. If no one knows after these two thousand years, then what is the purpose of trying to now do it? I really would like to learn these things. I am not trying to cause trouble or claim to be a genetic pure blood Jew myself, although I do believe I have Jewish blood. Why would I be rejected because I do not have pure Jewish blood if no one else can prove their blood is pure Jewish blood? Is this so difficult to talk about? Can't we have an adult conversation without it getting into name calling and hate speech? I do not wish to carry on any further conversation with Charles. I would appreciate it if someone else would talk to me about these questions. If there is a Rabbi on the web reading this, would you please explain these things to me? If you wish to consider me goy, then fine. I don't care, but at least respect me as a G-d fearer who is trying to learn. I respect Jews and Judaism, can't I have the same respect returned? PLease Charles, don't respond to this. I do not wish to argue with you.
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