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Rabbi: Lower marriage age to 15
Moria Ben-Yosef
Published: 18.01.11, 11:57
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31. FOR THE ATTENTION OF SARAH
MAHMOOD ,   LONDON-UK   (01.18.11)
Did you notice reasons behind early marriage?When an article in the Iranian media was published recently regarding the marriageable age,you had very fanciful remarks that you made.See how the religious people react?
32. Help large families?
R ,   Israel   (01.18.11)
The solution to poverty is to keep having more kids than you can afford to feed, and then get rid of them by marrying them off at 15? How about taking responsibility and either working to support yourself or not having zillions of kids?
33. Yeah, let's all behave like the Taliban
Russ ,   tlv   (01.18.11)
34. move into her husband's house?
Jacob Erickson ,   Holon, Israel   (01.18.11)
They want to move a 15 year old girl into her husband's house so she isn't a burden on the family? If she's 15, how old is the man if he has his own house? That's like selling your daughter away to some old man.
35. Rabbis breeding like Rabbits
Suze ,   Tel Aviv, israel   (01.18.11)
If these Rabbis and Haredim didn't breed like rabbits, and could earn an HONEST living, they wouldn't need to "sell off" their daughters at such a young age to become "sex slaves" to horny religous men.
36. Leave it to good ol' Rivka
Israelit ,   Israel   (01.18.11)
To sanctify child marriage. What relevance do marriage customs from 2000 years ago have to do with with today? 2000 years ago the average life expectancy was 43 years, women had much less. Death in childbirth, infant death rates were high. Absolutely sickening, this throw-back to the middle ages.
37. 27 , Ora
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (01.18.11)
Better to have those girls of 16 at school , studying science , maths and so , to prepare them for higher education .
38. In this corrupt immoral country and according to above tlbks
Moshe   (01.18.11)
it’s preferable for boys and girls to live together unmarried than marry them off young. What a lawless corrupt immoral G-dless people the secular Jews have become.
39. To Rivkah 30
Gregg ,   Haifa, IL   (01.18.11)
"But that was Greek pagan society not a Torah based culture" It tells me long on how narrow minded and $htoopid you are !!!
40. Rabbi Idan is the best...
PO ,   Ramat Gan, IL   (01.18.11)
... evidence that religion can POISON a mind. Haredim will kill the Judaism. Not the Arabs, nor assimilation, nor the Secular Jews. Haredim only, with their dark, backward mentaliut...
41. its all relative
david ,   new york   (01.18.11)
adolesence is an invention of the 20th century. prior to that, people went straight from childhood to adulthood. if you truely live in an environment where there is no adolescence then by all means marry at 14. if you don't then its a problem.
42. Too Young!
Ros ,   Tel Aviv   (01.18.11)
If they need to leave home, let them finish school and do voluntary work - there are so many places that need young people. A young marriage is not the answer! Let them become useful people in society - there is more than enough time to become a mother
43. Yeah, let's all behave like the Taliban
Russ ,   tlv   (01.18.11)
44. Watch divorce rates skyrocket when...
Stop the nonsense! ,   USA   (01.18.11)
Watch divorce rates skyrocket when these girls realize they were put on the path of destruction. Teenagers are still developing. They are figuring out which way to go. They are like the blind. Would you put an obstruction in the path of a blind person? If yes, then you are not a halachic Jew. Would you marry your young daughter off to an immature boy who has no clue that marriage is about giving? Who will MOST probably abuse his young wife when he's upset, angry or otherwise has no idea how to handle his emotions? Would you want to perpetuate a new generation being raised by immature parents who don't know better? If yes, then you are just like someone who puts an obstruction in the path of a blind person.
45. NY law
Besalel ,   Great Neck, NY   (01.18.11)
While I am not compelled by any of the arguments that this rabbi makes, i simply do not get the vicious anti-religious talkbacks. New York law, which is not controlled by rabbis or religion is as follows: 18 to marry; 16-17 marry with parents permission; 14-15 marry with a judge's permission. So whats all the fuss about?
46. disgusting just like the arabs women are just baby machines
rachel ,   usa   (01.18.11)
women are the base of any society , you keep them ignorant and treat them badly , the society falls . Look at the societies where women have no voice!!!!! Look at families where women have no voice !!!!
47. #3 you're the proof of immature
rachel ,   usa   (01.18.11)
look into yourself first before judging others
48. Who is this Rabbi?
ORA ,   Jerusalem   (01.18.11)
No need to worry . I don t think he has any chance to see his proposal come true.
49. Welcome to the 3rd world!
Norman Gellman ,   Rehovot   (01.18.11)
If this law gets passed then Israel will join the list of 3rd world countries. This Rabbi’s reasoning is fallacious at best or a sneaky way to try to increase the roles of the receivers of government support. A rapist does not care if a woman is married or not when he rapes her, a married man is not immune from becoming a rapist. This whole idea is just simply ludicrous and does not merit any serious consideration.
50. Sorry
JB ,   Rehovot Israel   (01.18.11)
I'm secular, but i do support everyone, regardless of how religious they are. This is where it stops. At 15, most girls are children, and should not be pressured into marriage, which would be de facto slavery. Israel is not Yemen.
51. Sinat Hinam & Hillul HaShem
Scott Miller ,   USA   (01.18.11)
@Moshe: you call secular Jews lawless, corrupt, immoral and G-dless, yet you are guilty of Sinat Hinam and Hillul HaShem. What's your punishment, my friend?
52. 37 Charles
ORA ,   Jerusalem   (01.18.11)
I agree with you .One of my Haredi daughters has an important job,in a start-up enterprise ,the other is more artistic oriented and learns publicity.They all know that the parnassa will be on their shoulders.They are at school the whole day,and the time ,they are at home they help their mother.
53. Rabbi's idea
Victor ,   Beer Sheva   (01.18.11)
I think rabbi is trying to help young people in special cases when instead of going to marriage they going to face jail. He want to help the young people. No one must to go marry in age of 15 , but if it neccessary, then why not?
54. alternative suggestion
Bearded Boegyman ,   Yehud Medinta   (01.18.11)
raise the age limit to be a rabbi, to like 60, or 70.
55. rivka who are these people?
israel   (01.18.11)
sorry i dont get who is "rabbi yeshua" and john the baptist etc.. explain it please
56. in the framework of marriage, I agree!
observer   (01.18.11)
where is the marriage firm?
57. Scott #51 as a matter of fact
Joy   (01.18.11)
I agree with moshe. If you do not see the lawlessness of Jewish boys and girls living together without legal marriage, then you have been corrupted too. There's a great Hillul HaShem for Jews to live in impure and profane relationships. It is time for you to start educating yourself in Jewish law, if you're Jewish.
58. Moshe, Joy, where are 15 & 16 year old Jewish Children livin
Israelit ,   Israel   (01.18.11)
My secular daughter is in her 20s, finished her army service, her university studies and lives at home. She has a job, helps out at home. The thought of forcing her or others into marriage at the ripe old age of 15 is just -- idiotic. It's a crime to make children get married before they have a profession, or are able to take care of themselves. But, it's soooo convenient to get rid of superfluous daughters by marrying them off early. Then they aren't the parent's responsibility anymore, only their husbands. And how old are the husbands going to be? 15 or 16 year old boys? How will they support their families? OH, I see... girls need to be married off to older men... How low can you go? Forget it, I don't even want to know.
59. Ora , Your daughters ?
Charles ,   Petach Tikva   (01.18.11)
Maybe you forgot "grand" ? They all know that the partnassa will be on their shoulders , you wrote , You know what i think about this : they are SLAVES . And babies and parnassa , sad that they accept such a situation . Such a situation is not the way that i will find religious people OK . The contrary
60. 2011 or 1011?
A Jerusalemite ,   Jerusalem, Israel   (01.18.11)
""The woman is not the reason, she is the emotions. A woman isn’t reasonable; she is emotional and the man possesses the reason." The man is still living in the dark ages! This is the result of his type of education. That is exactly why you have things like the "rabbi's wives letter" - because they are brought up to believe that whatever their husbands say is the absolute truth.
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