Unlike religious where boys and girls don't mingle, don't the secular all have boy/girl friends? Are all these friends fakers? Of course if you live illegally with these friends for a number of a years without a purpose just for love you become sick of each other and need a new one to start a family with.

She will be in great demand. Nature has given us the means to attract the other gender, naturally. But we need to like people and want to contribute to society. Good people have always found each other.