Paris — the City of Light, of romance, of eroticism and beauty — is arguably the ultimate destination for celebrating love, especially on Valentine’s Day, and remains a favorite year‑round for couples. With the help of Elinor Agam, founder and CEO of Miss Parisette, a luxury cultural travel specialist in the world’s most beautiful city, we’ve put together a secret and sexy list of unforgettable spots for lovers.
Les Larmes d’Eros: A sanctuary of erotic literature and art
While libraries in Israel are struggling under political pressures, Paris boasts a thriving institution dedicated entirely to erotic literature and art in all its forms. Welcome to Les Larmes d’Eros — “The Tears of Eros.” For decades, this unique archive has collected works related to erotic art and literature from aesthetic, historical, ethnographic and cultural perspectives.
Over the years, the library has amassed a precious collection of drawings, paintings, engravings and photographs, alongside an impressive assortment of ancient texts dating back to the 16th century — all centered on eroticism. Some of the books on display are rare and valuable, with prices reaching hundreds of euros.
Maison Souquet: A hidden world of sensual luxury
On the edge of Montmartre, near the famed Moulin Rouge, awaits a lavish enclave that combines a bar, hotel and spa, offering an especially romantic — and expensive — experience. Behind its discreet facade, marked by red lanterns hinting at its sensual character, lies Maison Souquet.
Once a Parisian house of pleasure, today it continues that tradition with elegant restraint. This opulently decorated space invites lovers into a world seemingly lifted from the romantic era of Paris. Everywhere you turn, works of art, sculptures, books, and curios create an enchanting atmosphere.
The lavish design is the work of acclaimed designer Jacques Garcia, known for his extraordinary ability to channel mystery, elegance, exoticism, sensuality and historical glamour. The experience ranges from the secluded courtyard and cocktail bars to a private pool, hammam -or Turkish bath, massage rooms and spa, and culminates in one of the hotel’s 20 exquisitely furnished guest rooms.
Private dinner evenings for singles
Every month in Paris, private dinner events are organized for single men and women — especially visitors to the city. These gatherings are hosted in private apartments or art galleries and are always conducted in English for the convenience of tourists.
Each dinner welcomes 12 single men and women, selected and grouped by age and interests. The evenings include live music, a three‑course dinner, and a host whose role is to facilitate introductions and ensure a smooth, enjoyable experience. A special version of the event is also offered for the LGBTQ+ community.
Paris naturist experiences: Art and freedom
Paris’s Naturist Association — a broader concept than nudism, rooted in a philosophy of natural living — organizes nude tours through the city’s major museums. Yes, visitors wander barefoot through museum halls, “merging with the art,” according to Elinor Agam. She notes that the association emphasizes Paris as the capital of naturism in Europe, even before Berlin and London.
If you’ve ever envied classical statues celebrating perfect, unclothed human form, you can now stroll in the nude at museums such as Palais de Tokyo, Musée Maillol, and Fondation Cartier. At Musée Maillol, hyper‑realistic human sculptures are on display — offering a fascinating interplay between nude bodies and art. For details: naturistes‑paris.fr
In the same spirit, Au Bonheur du Jour Gallery exhibits drawings, paintings, photographs and art from the 19th and 20th centuries. Nicknamed a “collector’s paradise,” the gallery focuses mainly on male nudes and queer art, with a section dedicated to female nudes and rare books.
Espace Naturiste de Paris: Naturism in the Forest
Espace Naturiste de Paris, the city’s naturist grove, is located in the Bois de Vincennes. The French describe it as “liberation in the heart of nature” — not a sexual experience, but a chance to “shed the layers that define life in a hectic metropolis and feel truly natural,” say members of the Paris Naturist Association.
Open from April through September during specific hours, the space is carefully monitored and signposted to avoid discomfort or inappropriate behavior. During the day, the area becomes a lively gathering place for the LGBTQ+ community.
Museum of Romantic Life: A quiet parisian gem
No list of Paris romantic experiences would be complete without the Museum of Romantic Life in the 9th arrondissement. Housed in the former home of painter Ary Scheffer, known for his romantic portraits and whose salon was a creative hub in the early 19th century, the museum explores love, partnership and the evolution of romance through the ages.
Currently on display is an exhibition titled “To Love and To Part” by artist Françoise Petrovitch. After your visit, pause in the charming tea salon in the museum’s inner courtyard, where you can enjoy a quiet drink and cake amid a neighborhood that buzzes with affection.
The Wall of ‘Je T’aime’: A monument to love
Amid global strife and rising individualism, the I Love You Wall (Le Mur des Je T’aime) stands as a symbol of reconciliation, connection, and embrace — in every language and from every corner of the globe. Located in the romantic square of Place des Abbesses in Montmartre, this monument dedicated to love has become a must‑see meeting point for lovers worldwide. It’s an unforgettable stop to say Je t’aime in countless languages while wandering one of Paris’s most romantic neighborhoods.
La Cabaret Bourlesque: A playful, elegant evening show
For cabaret lovers, La Cabaret Bourlesque offers an intimate show performed by a talented troupe of 30 dancers in traditional cabaret costumes reminiscent of early 20th‑century performances. Located near Notre‑Dame, the show feels like a floating dance club.
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La Cabaret Bourlesque offers an intimate show performed by a talented troupe of 30 dancers in traditional cabaret costumes
(Photo: Hervé PHOTOGRAFF)
This isn’t the classic topless cabaret of old, but a lively showcase of skillful dancing, vibrant numbers, kitschy humor, and unforgettable moments. The performance blends theatrical virtuosity with retro aesthetics, feathers, sequins, and genuine respect for the genre — more artistic and immersive than traditional cabaret, with diverse performers of all genders.
La Perouse – Maison des Plaisirs: Michelin legacy and candlelit elegance
Just a glance at the legendary La Perouse – Maison des Plaisirs — which earned three Michelin stars over 80 years ago — reveals its timeless atmosphere. The candlelit dining room, chandeliers and velvet drapes set the tone. On the second floor, private dining rooms await couples for secluded, romantic meals behind closed doors.
Service here is by bell, with a strict dress code. La Perouse also draws beautiful crowds during Paris Fashion Week, and on weekend evenings the experience continues with a DJ and dancing in the bar.
Castel: Paris’s legendary private club
In 1961, the legendary members’ club Castel was established in what was once a private mansion in Saint‑Germain‑des‑Prés. An exclusive icon of Paris nightlife, access is strictly member‑only — not everyone is admitted. Historically frequented by luminaries such as Serge Gainsbourg, Sasha Distel, Jean‑Paul Belmondo, Jack Nicholson, Salvador Dalí, Mick Jagger and Johnny Hallyday, the four‑story venue combines a restaurant, bar, library and dance club.
The interior oozes sizzling Parisian chic, with bold details like carpets adorned with male and female anatomical motifs — all presented elegantly. The atmosphere is decidedly erotic, though “nothing happens there beyond especially deep kisses,” Agam clarifies. Celebrities often visit with lovers due to the club’s discretion, but membership and a subscription fee are prerequisites.
Les Chandelles: Elegant couples‑only club
Visitors to Paris’ couples‑swap clubs know these are discreet, upscale, and refined experiences — far from the clichés. The most respected of them is Les Chandelles, where elegant couples, dressed smartly and seductively, are admitted only in pairs. Entry isn’t guaranteed — many are turned away by doormen, based on careful selection.
Despite its allure and celebrity clientele, paparazzi do not linger outside. In the most romantic city in the world, where the rules of amour are uniquely Parisian, discretion outweighs voyeurism.
Inside, this isn’t a leather‑and‑whips scene, Agam notes. You’ll find well‑dressed people aged roughly 35–55 in a candlelit, erotic atmosphere — not full nudity — within a moderately sized space divided into areas: a bar, dance floor with DJ, smoking lounge and intimate corners, all in plain view. Phones are strictly prohibited; upon entry they are checked and held until departure.
Once inside, participation is optional — you can simply observe and let yourself be carried by the mood. Everything is possible so long as the rules are respected — and yes, full clothing is required at the bar. Adventurous visitors can discover the rest for themselves.
Paris remains not just a destination, but a romantic universe where lovers can explore aesthetic, cultural, sensual and deeply personal experiences — from the quiet corners of a museum courtyard to the mystique of exclusive nights. Love, after all, is always in the air there.